This week will be our introduction to secure attachment, bonding, and connection with gentle exploratory exercises.
Premier: Saturday, April 10, 2021
Time: ( 7am PST ) – ( 9pm CST ) – ( 10am EST )
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Resources: Circle of Security – Parents Attending To The Child’s Needs The Secret Teachings of PlantsWe will explore multiple aspects of love—romantic love, familial love, love loss, love of place, of babies, and of our bodies, and how, as adults, we’re just big lovable babies.
Premier: Saturday, April 17, 2021
Time: ( 7am PST ) – ( 9pm CST ) – ( 10am EST )
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Resources:
Nonverbal Communication Tips for Secure Attachment
Earned Secure Attachment
This week, we will begin to look at our relational styles and preferences through a combination of lectures, heartfelt conversations, and experiential exercises.
Premier: Saturday, April 24, 2021
Time: ( 7am PST ) – ( 9pm CST ) – ( 10am EST )
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Resources:
In this class, we will explore the dance between survival and nurturing
Premier: Saturday, May 1, 2021
Time: ( 7am PST ) – ( 9pm CST ) – ( 10am EST )
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Replay will be available 24hours after the live class
In this class, we will explore the dance between survival and nurturing
Premier: Saturday, May 8, 2021
Time: ( 7am PST ) – ( 9pm CST ) – ( 10am EST )
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Resources:This week we will look into the art of accurate reflection and its central role in developing strong identity. We will also talk about the impact of comfort and soothing, as well as their relationship to safety, rhythm, ease, and health
Premier: Saturday, May 15, 2021
Time: ( 7am PST ) – ( 9pm CST ) – ( 10am EST )
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Resources:We will explore the history of attachment theory and why it affects you everyday, even when you don’t know it. Additionally, we will refine your learning from the class and how to apply it to enhance your current relationships.
Premier: Saturday, May 22, 2021
Time: ( 7am PST ) – ( 9pm CST ) – ( 10am EST )
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Resources:We will look at protection and its role in creating the circumstances for bonding. Finally, we will summarize the class learning and celebrate our time together.
Premier: Saturday, June 5, 2021
Time: ( 7am PST ) – ( 9pm CST ) – ( 10am EST )
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Favorite Love Songs
• Melissa Grogan : To Zion by Trevor Hall
• Diana Harold : I have to go, thanks and good bye, see you next week. M
• Diana Harold : Your song Elton john
• Sarah Snow : Bonnie Koloc: If My Love Were A River
• https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PeEqk6zJw4k
• Sofie : If you ever want to be in love James Bay
• Helen Roberts:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iuHAh-2xGxw
• If I Loved You
Richard Rodgers, Oscar Hammerstein II
But somehow I can see
Just exactly how I’d be
If I loved you,
Time and again I would try to say
All I’d want you to know.
If I loved you,
Words wouldn’t come in an easy way
Round in circles I’d go!
Longin’ to tell you,
But afraid and shy,
I’d let my golden chances pass me by!
Soon you’d leave me,
Off you would go in the mist of day,
Never, never to know how I loved you
If I loved you.
• Cate: Fields of Gold by Sting
• Margery: Emmie by Laura
Nyro: https://open.spotify.com/track/5kpXVatfwncCPRMJi05kCq?si=J_fm8a6zRVuHQdiiBH8KJw
Feel free to add to the list above!
My love song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7SrTmDasJm0
“La complicidad” from Perotá Chingó 🙂
Kristi Smith: Lazy Eye by HEM
Lucas: I don’t pay attention in the lyrics – Damien Rice and Cantus Domus – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxWl-O19i-I
Alexa Weir: Roberta Flack – The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face
Kristi Smith: Lazy Eye by HEM
Alexa Weir: Roberta Flack – The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face ️
Lucas: I don’t pay attention in the lyrics – Damien Rice and Cantus Domus – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxWl-O19i-I
I am not seeing the replay for week 3.
I am seeing week 2 in the replay spot of week 3.
I would love to review week 3, since I was so out of it during class time.
Thank you!
Summer
How do you want them to treat you, when you are cold?
Awareness Exercise
Take some time to write your answers to the following questions:
-As you write-also notice your body responses and record any physical sensations and emotional awareness’s as well as you ponder and write about these questions:
• Are you able to ask for help when you need care and WARMTH?
• How are you with vulnerability (your own and others)
and how does that show up for you?
• How do you want to be treated when you need help and are vulnerable?
Imagine you are a child and you are cold….
1. You go to someone who you know, and you are very cold…
and they look at you and They DO NOT notice how you are feeling from your body language, facial expression, or behavior
• What are some of the things they might say to you that lets you know they Do NOT see you?
• What are some inaccurate reflections they could share with you?
2. You go to someone you do know, and they look at you and THEY DO Notice how you are feeling from your body language, facial expression, behavior
o What are some of the things they might say to you to let you know they Do see you?
o What are some accurate reflections they could share with you?
Accurate reflection is the process of understanding someone’s body tone, cadence, patterning of thought, and meaning through the act of embodying a reflection of their communication.
We can embody anther’s communication; words, sounds, feeling tone, movement expression and meaning, so they can see, feel, and hear themselves reflected through our being.
We can reflect one another with:
In Movement
In Feeling Tone
In Language
In Meaning
In Prosody
In Tempo
In Breathing Patterning
In Somatic Embodiment
Sometimes we have to get it wrong to get it right..
At all times, prioritize connection over “rightness” or “wrongness”, by seeking to understand and clarify perceptions in collaboration with one another…
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Accurate Reflection Class Exercise 1
In twos reflect partners Movement
Reflect their Sounds
Reflect their Sound and Movement and Feeling state
Change Roles
Discuss your experience with partner
Maternal Matrix – a great home project to work with for the next at least nine months (or longer) to create a connected, loving space with your adult self-supporting your baby/child & vulnerable adult self.
Maternal Matrix Messages
From Jack Rosenberg, IBP (Integrative Body Therapy)
1 – I love you.
2 – I want you.
3 – You are special to me.
4 – I see you and I hear you.
5 – It is not what you do but who you are that I love.
6 – I love you, and I give you permission to be different from me.
7 – I’ll take care of you.
8 – I’ll be there for you; I will be there even when we die.
9 – You don’t have to be alone anymore.
10 – You can trust me.
11 – You can trust your inner voice.
12 – Sometimes I will tell you “no”, and that’s because I love you.
13 – You don’t have to be afraid anymore.
14 – My love will make you well.
15 – I welcome and cherish your love
To work with these messages
· Look at a photo of your young baby/toddler self and recognize yourself and this is the part of you that you are talking with
· Say out loud the message, and do your best to feel the message in your heart…sometimes a hand or a ‘heart hug’ helps with this
· Write the words down and look at them…. after you know them write them with your non-dominate hand.
· Really let yourself cherish that little one that you were when you were not met, and meet yourself now, with what you needed then.
Adapted from Myrna Martin